In our last
post, we gave the real story behind five of the most common college myths.
And now
we’re going at it again. Here are five more popular college untruths, along
with the reality check that goes with them.
Myth #1: Credit card companies
wouldn’t approve me if I wasn’t responsible.
Reality: Credit card companies market
aggressively to college students because college students tend to be (1) broke
and (2) irresponsible.
At
least when it comes to credit cards.
Since
most 18-year-olds don’t have an established credit history, the fact that your
mailbox is overflowing with preapproved credit card offers likely has very
little to do with how responsible the credit card companies think you are. In
fact, you’re probably getting those offers because statistics show that college
students tend to be impulse shoppers, spending money they don’t have and
racking up charges and interest they can’t pay back right away.
The
credit card companies don’t want to give you a credit card because they think
you’re a great person, they want to give you a credit card because they see you
as their cash cow.
Allow
yourself one credit card to start
establishing your credit, use it only
for emergencies (and a MacBook Air
does NOT qualify as an emergency), and tear up all the other offers you get.
Myth #2: College is a lot like the
real world.
Reality: OK, yes, college is closer to
“real life” than your regimented, pre-packaged days in high school were. But
you’re still a few layers removed from The Real World.
College
is a time when you can focus on learning and exploring instead of on holding
down a steady job so you can pay your bills. In college, you can travel as part
of a study-abroad program, try out different jobs and internships during your
summers, and throw yourself into different classes to find the perfect career
for you. Once you’re out in the “real world,” you may not have these kinds of
opportunities again.
College
is about self-discovery, and few college students, if any, are set on the path
that the rest of their lives will follow. So enjoy college for what it is, but
don’t assume (for better or for worse) that your college life represents how
your real-world life will be.
Myth #3: Since no one’s taking
attendance, you can pretty much skip class, read the book, and just show up for
tests and finals.
Reality: College isn’t high school. A lot
of the questions on your exams may come from lectures and class discussions —
material that may not be anywhere in your textbook. A lot of profs don’t take
attendance because they assume that not bombing the tests is incentive enough
for you to show up.
Sure,
you could borrow notes from someone, but trust us, it’s a lot harder to grasp tricky
concepts from other people’s notes when you haven’t been there to hear them
explained first-hand.
Myth #4: It’s more important to
get great grades in easier courses than to take difficult courses and risk
getting lower grades.
Reality: It wasn’t true when you were in
high school, applying to colleges, and it’s not true now. You’ll be better off,
both personally and professionally, choosing your courses based on which class
will help you learn more and not which class is going to help pad your GPA.
If
you’re still concerned with that whole “marketability” thing (see Myth # 1 in
our last
post), think of it this way: Most employers and graduate schools are going
to admire the hard workers and trailblazers, the applicants who took risks in
college, stepped outside their comfort zone, and consistently challenged
themselves instead of taking the easy or well-known road.
And
honestly, five years from now, no one’s going to care what your college GPA
was.
Really.
Myth #5: I need to decide on a
major as soon as possible.
Reality: There’s a grain of truth to this
myth, in the sense that if you decide to suddenly switch gears in the middle of
your junior year, you may have to spend a couple extra semesters at school
getting all your requirements in for your new major.
But
changing majors is extremely common, and if you find that a major you thought
was a good fit just doesn’t interest you anymore, don’t be afraid to look for a
different one. If you set your course in stone from the start and just stick to
it, bulldozing ahead no matter what, you’ll miss the detours that make the
whole trip worthwhile.
So
experiment. Try new classes. Don’t be afraid to fail.
And choose your major because it’s something you
enjoy, not because you think it’ll look good on your résumé. Remember: You
won’t get these years back, so live them for yourself, not for what’ll be
printed on a piece of paper.